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We have made quality our habit. It’s not something that we just strive for – we live by this principle every day.

Here's what our listeners say

Amaze balls!

Thanks ladies for doing what you do! I look forward to Mondays and Wednesdays. Love the fact you put fun in sobriety and are future focused! 5 star …. top shelf - thank u


Wow - you guys have a great rapport together! I like the pacing of your show and I love that you don’t yell at each other! You both have wonderful sounding laughs which helps me smile. Some podcaster’s voices get to me but your tone and pacing is great. As a person in recovery I really appreciate the stories and the humor. Please keep it up; you’re nailing it. ODAT.

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These two are hilarious and every woman needs to listen!

Meet Tamar & Lane

Tamar Medford and Lane Kennedy share their life experiences and hilarious adventures as two women living in long-term recovery. (Which is often messy!)

With over 35 years of continuous sobriety, Tamar & Lane support women over 40 who have hit the f*ck it button and find themselves asking WTF! Now What?

Got a question, secret, lie or topic you want to share? You can also call and leave us a message: 1 (415) 340-2886


"I gained insight as to why I've failed to reach goals in the past: no clear plan, no one to hold me accountable, and why excitement alone isn't enough to carry us through to achieve that goal."

- Paula Miller - Omaha NB

"Tamar and Lane made every step of this unfamiliar process, more manageable...and dare I!I can proudly say, I am no longer setting myself up for failure. I am taking care of me, and it feels great. They taught me the self-effort required for improvement, while simultaneously providing the support, guidance and tools to navigate this challenging journey."

- Kerissa Moore - Portland OR

Now What Society Community

We will teach you to break free from overthinking, quiet the inner rage, and slow down your type A personality that has you stressssssed out all the time! You will feel ten years younger and live your best life.


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